In this episode of Can You Just Sit With Me, I engage in conversation with Whitney K. Pipkin, a journalist and author of We Shall All Be Changed: How Facing Death with Loved Ones Transforms Us. Whitney shares her personal journey through grief following her mother’s death from cancer, exploring the lessons learned about facing death, anticipating grief, and the profound transformation that can occur through such experiences. This episode is all about how to find hope in grief and transformation through loss.

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When death comes to the door, it has a way of revealing what our hope is truly in and promptly disposing of lesser versions.

Whitney k. pipkin

In our conversation, Whitney discusses the biblical perspective on death and grief, emphasizing the importance of facing these inevitable parts of life with hope, faith, and an understanding of God’s presence in suffering. The episode is an invitation to listeners to understand grief as not only a journey through sadness but also an opportunity for spiritual growth and deeper connection with God.


We Shall All Be Changed is a companion for those experiencing the lonely season of suffering and death. In this book, Whitney reaches across the pages to hold the hand of the caregiver. Walking through death with a loved one can be incredibly isolating and unsettling. This book reminds us that we can experience God’s very presence in life’s dark and deep valleys. As Whitney draws from her own experience, she sheds light and hope. She shows that we are not alone. And she reveals the mysterious way that God ministers to and transforms us through death and suffering.

Beautifully honest and theologically rich, Whitney invites us to consider death so that we might understand life and how to live it.


Main Points

  • Embracing Grief as a Path to Healing
  • The Power of Sitting With Grief
  • Finding Strength in Vulnerability
  • Living in Light of the End

Episode Talking Points

  • 00:00 Introduction to the Podcast and Guest
  • 00:38 Sharing Grief and Finding Comfort
  • 02:10 Whitney’s Personal Journey with Grief
  • 05:39 Exploring the Theology of Death
  • 11:10 The Impact of Grief and Embracing the Presence of Christ
  • 15:47 Unpacking the Complexities of Grieving
  • 21:18 Finding Hope and Strength in Suffering
  • 30:56 Embracing Life’s Seasons and Concluding Thoughts

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About the Guest:

Whitney K. Pipkin lives with her husband, three children and a dog named Honeybun in Northern Virginia, where she works as a journalist. After losing her mom to the cancer she wrestled with for 20 years, Whitney has written a book she prays will serve others walking similar roads. We Shall All Be Changed: How Facing Death with Loved Ones Transforms Us came out this week on Feb. 6. You can find her on Instagram @whitneykpipkin and sign up for her newsletter at whitneykpipkin.com.


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We Shall All Be Changed by Whitney K. Pipkin

Can You Just Sit With Me by Natasha Smith